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God's Detour: The Journey You Never Knew You Needed, to Get Everything You Ever Wanted

Writer's picture: H.E.R.H.E.R.

Updated: Jan 28

Why, Hello Gorgeous! Sometimes, life takes a turn that leaves you asking, "Why, God? Why now?" But let me tell you something: those twists, those unexpected detours, are often the journeys we didn’t even know we needed to get to the life we always dreamed of. So, sit back and relax, sis, because I’m about to break down how trusting God through those twists can lead you to a place of abundance beyond your wildest dreams.


God's Detour: The Journey You Never Knew You Needed


1. When You Plan, God Laughs—But Not in the Way You Think

“We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps.” — Proverbs 16:9


You know how it is. We plan everything to a tee—our careers, our relationships, even our five-year glow-up plan. We’re out here setting goals and manifesting our future. But sometimes, just when we think we have it all figured out, life flips the script. That relationship you thought was "the one" ends, or that promotion you worked so hard for goes to someone else.

An open map and a vintage leather-bound journal resting on a wooden surface, symbolizing the journey of life, exploration, and the unexpected detours we encounter along the way.

But here’s the kicker: God doesn’t laugh at our plans because He wants to see us fail. He laughs because He knows the plot twist He’s about to throw in will set us up for something greater. God’s detour is like when you’re watching a movie, and the main character has no idea that the setback they’re going through is actually setting them up for a major win.


Actionable Takeaway: Next time life doesn’t go as planned, don’t trip. Instead, ask God, "What lesson do you want me to learn in this detour?" You’ll be surprised how the shift in mindset changes everything.


2. The Detour Is Not a Delay—It’s Divine Redirection

“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” — Jeremiah 29:11


Sis, I’m gonna keep it real with you—waiting is hard. When it feels like everyone around you is thriving while you're stuck in neutral, it’s easy to feel like God is holding out on you. But let me drop a truth bomb: God doesn’t waste time, and He definitely doesn’t waste your time.

That season of waiting, that unexpected delay, could be God protecting you from something that’s not for you or preparing you for the blessings you’ve been praying for. What if the reason you didn’t get that opportunity was that God was lining you up for something even better? Sometimes, the delay is the protection we never knew we needed.


Actionable Takeaway: Instead of getting frustrated in the waiting season, focus on preparation. What skills can you hone? What relationships can you build? Prepare like the blessing is already on its way.


3. Your Journey Will Take You to Places You Didn’t Expect to Go—And That’s the Point

“The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” — Proverbs 16:9


Let’s be real—nobody enjoys being taken out of their comfort zone. But what if I told you that discomfort is a sign of growth? Often, God will take us through some messy situations, not to break us but to build us into who we’re meant to be. That career pivot? That breakup? That health scare? Sis, those are tools in God’s workshop.

Remember when Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers, only to rise to power in Egypt? He never expected to end up there, but that’s where he found his purpose. Likewise, your uncomfortable moments are where God is shaping you for the future He has for you. You can’t get to your next level without leaving your comfort zone behind.


Actionable Takeaway: Instead of avoiding discomfort, lean into it. Trust that if God brought you to it, He’ll bring you through it—and what’s waiting on the other side is worth every struggle.


4. Trusting God Requires Letting Go of the Illusion of Control

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” — Proverbs 3:5-6


One of the hardest things about this faith walk is surrendering. As humans, we like control. We like to map out our lives, create vision boards, and take the driver's seat. But God is saying, “I got this. You don’t have to carry the weight.”


I’m not saying you shouldn’t set goals or work hard. But there’s a difference between working with God and trying to do His job for Him. When we hold on too tight, we block the blessings He’s trying to send our way. Sometimes, the biggest breakthrough happens when we say, “Okay, God. I trust You. Take the wheel.”


Actionable Takeaway: Make surrender a daily practice. Start your mornings by affirming, “God, I trust You. Whatever today brings, I know You’re guiding me.” Watch how your day shifts.


5. Your Journey Is Also About Blessing Others Along the Way

“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” — Romans 8:28


Close-up of hands holding a smartphone with a map application open, symbolizing the concept of navigating life’s detours and finding new directions.

Here’s a word for you—your journey is not just about you. It’s about how God will use your story to inspire, uplift, and empower others. When we go through trials, we gain wisdom, compassion, and strength that we can then pour into the lives of those around us. Whether it’s helping a sister who’s struggling or mentoring someone who’s on the same path you once walked, your story has power.


Just like Joseph used his position in Egypt to save his family and a nation, God will use your detours to bless others. So don’t be afraid to share your journey, both the highs and the lows. You never know whose life you might change in the process.


Actionable Takeaway: Reflect on the lessons you’ve learned from your journey. How can you share those with others? Whether it’s through conversations, social media, or mentorship, use your experiences to uplift those around you.


Conclusion: Trust the Process, Sis—God’s Got You

Life’s detours are rarely comfortable, but they are often exactly what we need. Trust that God is working behind the scenes, even when it feels like He’s silent. The journey may not always make sense, but if you stay faithful and trust in His timing, you’ll find yourself in a place of abundance that you never even knew was possible.


Remember: It’s not about the destination; it’s about who you become along the way. Trust the process. God’s got you.


As always, I'm eager to hear your thoughts and experiences in the comments. Let's continue celebrating this beautiful creation of life's masterpiece together.

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